EXPLICIT/GRAPHIC WARNING: TRIGGER WARNING! This video is part of the Born in Hell Video series regarding the abuse I suffered as a child at the hands of my parents and a sibling. This video details the CSA, Child Sexual Abuse and Incest I was forced to endure from 8 to 9 years old. This video is EXPLICIT and GRAPHIC and I advise that you watch at your own discretion. The topics of child abuse and child sexual abuse can make people very uncomfortable and can trigger survivors of abuse. Please make the right decision for yourself. I do not go into too many graphic details on this video, my book "One Child Abuse Survivor 2 Another: The Journey" is detailed and explicit and adult material for adults only. In this video I shared my pain, physical as well as emotional and spiritual pain that the CSA/incest caused. I was already shutting down and closing myself off because of the previous 7 years of abuse at the hands of my parents and the dysfunction I was forced to be a part of. The child sexual abuse finished me off. I felt dead at this time, and could not understand why my mom did not get me help when I disclosed that my brother Rob had been doing things to me at night and was hurting me. My mother explained that it was my problem and not hers and turned a blind eye and a blind ear and allowed my 21 year old brother Rob to rape me over a period of 10 months. I developed a bad infection from the damage to my body and found out at age 21 after a gynaecology check up, that the damage done from the CSA had made me barren and even with reconstructive surgery, I would probably never become pregnant or ever be able to carry a child. I was told this at the age of 18 years old after I had a bad car accident, but I was in shock from the accident and did not care at that point if I lived or died, so I just stuffed that information back into "the drawer" so I wouldn't have to deal with it. The CSA/incest scarred me for life and at this time at 8 years old I could not let anyone touch me, and could not allow anyone to get close to me. I carried this into my adult years and it is still a part of me today although I have made great progress in my healing journey since May 22, 2007. Prior to this date, I was contemplating suicide on a regular basis and had nearly gone through with my plans several times. When I began my healing journey, I decided to live, to reach out, to get help and that is why I work so hard to spread this message to other survivors of abuse. Do not ever give up! Stay alive! Get help! Reach out! Do not be destroyed by the past abuse, because that allows the abusers to win the fight! I decided to live and to win this fight!
Christmas 1972, Rob was 21 years old, I had just turned 8 years old. This is the last month I would be a virgin. My brother Rob began to sexually abuse me January 1973 to October 1973.
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